Motherhood is a full-time commitment wrapped in love, chaos, laughter, guilt, and strength. And then there’s everything else: work, wellness, side hustles, relationships, dreams. The question that always lingers is—how do we do it all without losing ourselves in the process?

Welcome to ThisMOMMATish: the real, raw, and still-rising journey of being a mom who’s not just raising kids—but raising herself, too.

🕰️ Productivity—But Make It Realistic

Let’s be honest: “productive” looks different when you’re a mom. It’s not always color-coded planners and miracle mornings. Sometimes it’s:

  • Sending emails during snack time

  • Brainstorming ideas in the school pickup line

  • Finally folding that laundry while listening to a podcast that reminds you—you’re not alone

Here’s what I’ve learned:

  • Prioritize by energy, not just time – Some tasks need your full brain. Others? You can knock out while half-asleep.

  • Batch small wins – Group quick tasks together and get that dopamine hit.

  • Give yourself grace – Some days are for doing. Others are for surviving.

“You’re not behind. You’re on mom-time—which means you’re doing more than most, even when it doesn’t look like it.”

🌱 Self-Growth Is Not Selfish

Repeat after me: Your personal growth matters.
Yes, even now. Especially now.

Motherhood doesn’t cancel your goals—it clarifies them. It reveals what really matters and what you’re capable of. Whether you’re learning a new skill, healing old wounds, or finally prioritizing your mental health—that’s growth.

Tips for nurturing your own self:

  • Journal during quiet moments (even if it’s just 5 minutes before bed)

  • Schedule “you time” like a non-negotiable meeting

  • Surround yourself (online or IRL) with women who inspire you and see you

Growth doesn’t have to be loud. Sometimes it’s a whisper that says, “I’m still here, and I still matter.”

🪞Reflections From the Mom Trenches

I used to think I had to choose—be a great mom or chase my passions. But over time I’ve realized: my kids don’t need a perfect mom. They need a present, evolving one.

Some days I feel like I’m crushing it. Other days, I’m riding on caffeine and prayer. But every day, I remind myself:

  • You’re allowed to have your own dreams.

  • You’re not falling behind—your path just has extra detours (and baby wipes).

  • You are setting an example, not just for your kids—but for yourself.

💛 ThisMOMMATish Is All of It

It’s loving your family fiercely while carving space for your own light.
It’s making peace with the mess—and finding magic in the middle of it.
It’s choosing both: motherhood and momentum, kids and creativity, caretaking and becoming.

So here’s to the moms who are doing the work—in their homes, in their hearts, and in the mirror.

You’re not just making it work—you’re making it meaningful.